For me, I tend to agree with buffalo and furfan about the camera thing. Once, for less than an hour, I went to a hotel near LaGuardia or JFK for some type of a BDSM convention around 20 years ago. The show floor had plenty of companies showing & selling equipment and outfits, with a handful of Mistresses around dressed in full costumes. I went to see if I could meet a specific out-of-town Mistress and maybe schedule a session. Smartphones were not around then, but point-and-shoot cameras were, and spooked, I quickly left.

Strangely enough a few years ago I got brave attending a tech convention in Vegas. At the same time the AVN Convention was being held at the same facility, the Sands. Some guys I knew visited AVN so a few hours before my red eye flight home, and I bought a ticket. It was an enormous floor, porn stars at almost each booth, and by luck I did meet two Dominas there that I sessioned with in the past.

But at this point would I go to Fetcon or something like it? Probably not.