I tend to agree with you, thomas. I think the problem with our society is that we want things to fit neatly in a box and we love labels - but seldom are things that simple - especially when it comes to human nature and sexality in particular.

I've known subs that believe they were born with their fetish(s). Some (definitely the minority) declare they cannot reach climax without at least fantasizing about their particular kink. For them maybe it is an orientation. Personally, I developed My kink. I found certain things interesting and fun and I explored and nurtured them. I don't think it's an orientation with Me. It's a choice. Could I put the Genie back in the bottle? I don't know, but like you, I have the ability to enjoy the flavor of vanilla.

Thanks for commenting and sharing your thoughts. I always like hearing your thoughtful opinions.