It's a type of domination play I've always wanted to do, but am too afraid to ask professional dommes because even for the FTT ones, that almost definitely goes against their rules given that would put me in direct contact with their butthole. And might be a bit too messy for them to want to do anyways.

So I was wondering how someone can go about this?
Despite NYC-NJ-CT being the densest region in the country for escorts/dommes, I can't seem to find many "hardsports" escorts with my limited googling skills to then ask them if they'd be okay with this.

Any recommendations for me? Either on how to find dommes who would be okay with this (that doesn't get me immediately blocked) or if you have any personal recommendations?