I wonder how much experience the OP has with European vs American Dommes. I hope he'll let us know.

I've session with almost 20 Dommes in 5 European countries and many dozen all across the U.S. I find there is scant difference. Sure, British Dommes seem to like their canes, and German Dommes usually have a wealth of equipment that most American Dommes can only dream about.

But you can find whatever kind of Domme you want here in the U.S. or "over there" if you are able to travel.