Bladezeus, I completely agree. If I posted this comment already on this site, it bears repeating. Years ago, before the internet, when going to a new dungeon and especially seeing an independent Mistress in her own studio or apartment for the first time, I would sometimes be nervous thinking, "I don't know this person. Is she legit?"

At some point I matured, realized that it wasn't all about me, and that Mistresses are taking the risk, especially in the days before social media and the like. She might think I was a cop or axe murderer. Mistresses were taking most of the risks, if not all of them.

So my mindset from then on was to act like the Mistress hired me for session, whether it was a first time appointment or someone who knew me well. It increased my rapport with Mistresses and took my sessions to the next level and beyond.