Had recent session with a Mistress, and in aftercare, we discussed a LOT.
For subs, recognize the difference between sub and slave and STOP thinking you're 1 when that is not realistic. IF you don't "get" the difference, maybe ASK before sessioning, as it does matter.

Also, THINK about the risk Pro Dommes take before balking at the tribute, OR the requirements. These professionals literally risk their LIFE and deserve more respect than some posts here seem to understand.

The things Mistresses have to purchase to have an "arsenal" often costs $10's of thousands, not including space, NOr the risk they take personally. So, STOP being "mad" when they want to know WHO you are.

IF you don't think this is realistic, then leave the Pro Dommes to those of us that respect what they are.

I hope I did not offend any Professional Dommes, but after recent discussion have increased respect for your safety,

sub J,