I don't think there's any right or wrong, just right or wrong for you. All of what you said makes sense.

For me, I tend to be an equal opportunity submissive. I absolutely love a smart, experienced domme close to my age, for all the reasons you said.

I also LOVE -- to the point it's almost a fetish in itself -- working with young, inexperienced dommes. It's a turn-on to me that if they were working at my company, their boss's boss's boss would be taking their orders from me, they'd be grateful if I even acknowledged them ... but as it is, they've used their sexual power to completely turn the tables, I'm naked and getting my genitals tortured and begging for mercy. What a turn-on! I also love working with beginner dommes, mentoring them along, watching them blossom into powerful dominant females.

And, I love everything in between. Older women without experience; younger women with experience. Women who are book smart or not. I can find a turn-on in almost everyone, as long as they figure out how to push my buttons... and as long as I'm sexually attracted to them