i am not much of a player but i have over the years developed my criteria for a Domme/Mistress

i am over 50 so i want someone within 20 years of my age. Otherwise i feel too creepy to enjiy the session and have nothing in common with the Mistress.

Intellect - i can't imagine being with a Domme that was not able to carry on a conversation with me and have had some of the same world experiences and in real life to be one of my friends if things had been different regarding how we met and interact

Experience - This goes without saying. Knowledge is Power and a Mistress without knowledge is not only powerless, She may end up hurting/injuring you quite badly .

Comments/Thoughts?