Originally Posted By Mistress UV
Yes. I've even had subs 'fess up' after the fact about it.


I had something similar. The sub mentioned the Domme and her questions about various details. In this case, I think it was opportunistic on the Domme's part. In the other cases, I think a client has been sent.

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Its a weird thing, I don't really stress about it because I'm confident in My skills as a Domme and there's nothing new they'll learn from that interaction, I'm still getting paid.


It bothers me because I'm a private person and I'm extending trust to the people I invite into my space. I don't want to feel like I can't trust my clients. I don't want to feel like some Dommes are trying to get info on me or whatever. Gross.

Some clients are big mouths. I know I had a sub tell a Domme where I'm located because that Domme later mentioned it. I had never told her. You may think it's harmless...until a crazy Domme (or client) gets your location and starts stalking you or sending the cops to your place. This didn't happen to me; it happened to another Domme here in Philly.

I don't think people realize that privacy isn't just something our clients are concerned about. We Dommes have privacy issues as well. And I would argue they may be more serious that those of our clients.

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Did you have someone sneaky recently?


I believe so. He didn't come out and say it but there are other clues there which leads me to believe he was a "plant".