Originally Posted By MayaMidnight
I think most experienced dommes have a pretty good idea of what will fit with a submissive's stated interests.

If you tell me you're a sissy into strap-on, I'm gonna assume you also want to suck that strap-on and I'm gonna be right. Literally, I have never been wrong about it once.

Depending on the submissive and the activity in question, I might ask first but the times I've felt confident enough to go right on ahead without any check-in I have typically been correct. The few times I wasn't, the submissive had adequate opportunity to let me know before things went too far.


Amen. Just about everything I have done, or do now, in sessions were... suggested or seduced into by a Mistress I was visiting. One reason was, at the beginning, I was a horny 20 year old and saw a pic of an "older woman" who was a Mistress and just wanted to be with her. I didn't know what the hell the scene was about. Years later I suggested some activities if I knew the Mistress I was visiting well enough. Some said to me, "No, I don't think so," or said it wasn't for me. So many, as a young man and then as I got older, were... well, gentle with me.

Looking back on it I think the best Dominas (especially the ones on domina.ms) are, in part, performance artists and therapists among other things. I don't think my longtime Mistress visits this site, or the many others I have served in the past, but for those of you Dominas who contribute here, may I thank all of you, for all of us submissive males, who are so unworthy.