Originally Posted By ztrade
Which dommes, if any, use some trickery or deceit to get some things or get consent for some things or to steer a session her way? Or, do dommes try to be mostly hnnest and straightforward in terms of having sessions go the way discussed?

Which dommes, if any, bring in ideas or parts of scene, not discussed, based on the idea that the sub/guy probably or ought to go for it and try it to see if he will like it or appreciate it?


If this is a follow up to your previous question, let me clarify that I, and other Dommes who may like to bring activities into our scenes that have not been explicitly negotiated, should not be assumed to be using "trickery".

I play intelligently and ethically. I know how to negotiate a scene. I know how to be a Dominant. Therefore, I don't need to use trickery.