International,
My wife and I session with a Dom five or six times a year. They are the pitchers and I'm the catcher.

We usually go to the same Dom who has tutored my wife, "to go boldly where my wife has not gone before".....my wife now has more understanding and confidence regarding my kinks.....this is huge.

The Dom possesses skills far above my BDSM threshold, and could easily be bored, but the kindness she shows us both is the reason we both enjoy going back to her.

Not sure if kindness will be considered a little wimpy,.....maybe I'm just a lightweight, but it goes a long way with me.
Driver