Ms Tissa,
I wouldn't think of you as insecure, especially if you believe the rants are being done antagonistically.
I think of you and other Domme's as the goose's who lay the golden eggs. We should try not to step on the goose.

The insecurity lies within some of us who come to see you. I save for it, look forward to it, love it while I'm there, but often have questions and guilt afterwards.

Guilt and questions could be a topic of its own.

But I think some guys are looking for ways to allay this guilt by spending less money, and in doing so, compare notes and look for "better deals".

I also suspect many haven't really thought about it from your perspective. I think most commenters are genuine and speak honestly.....that's why I read this forum.

Those who speak antagonistically on this subject, do the same on other subjects,
and are pretty much experts on everything from behind the anonymity of the computers screens.

I'm afraid some of us will always want to beat the system, anytime we spend money....... but in doing so, we may be planting our foot on the goose's neck.....

The Driver