I have seen multiple conversations on boards, this and elsewhere, where men discuss with one another about how they approach other providers, such as escorts or random college girls, as ways to get their kinky desires fulfilled. While I completely understand people wanting to discuss it, whether it's about expanding your options or, for some, saving money, I find it disrespectful on a site for professional Dommes.

Before I'm accused of being insecure, this is not the case here. I'm very secure in what I offer. It's about it seeming inappropriate for the purpose of the forum. It is almost as if you're attempting to undermine our livelihoods. In the case of a couple people, I believe it is done antagonistically.

Imaging joining a forum for cosmetic surgeons. On it are various professionals who perform this type of work. Then you discuss how you found some people who could give you black market filler for cheaper or that you taught how to perform fat transfers -- in front of the surgeons, who are trying to provide information and support about getting cosmetic surgery performed.

This cross across as tacky.

Constructive dialogue is welcome.