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#19607 - 01/28/24 03:25 AM
Re: Where have all the topics gone
[Re: Mistress Tissa]
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Pooh-Bah
Registered: 07/12/19
Posts: 2304
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Tissa, as I see it, there is a huge difference between talking about recent events and musing over NYC experiences from the 70's. JB does mix personal and professional life experiences. There are very entertaining, as you can see from the reaction of other posters here.
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#19608 - 01/28/24 03:33 AM
Re: Where have all the topics gone
[Re: Mistress Tissa]
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Pooh-Bah
Registered: 07/12/19
Posts: 2304
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How, in the world, is musing about life experiences from the 70's endangering current day dommes? With all due respect, you are stifling conversation on this forum. Obviously, you are free to moderate as you see fit. It is discouraging to see positive conversations being censored and quality posters criticized, which has happened on other topics as well. You've asked me to withdraw from discussions, which I obliged at the time. But, it is getting to the point of having to walk on egg shells or simply be quiet. JB brings such positive energy and good contribution to this forum. It is really sad to see this site take a nose dive when it was going so well and, in part, due to posters like JB.
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#19613 - 01/28/24 05:44 AM
Re: Where have all the topics gone
[Re: Komodo]
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Registered: 07/12/19
Posts: 430
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Junglebeast,
There are a few more things I would like to add to my previous post. First is that I shared from childhood your fascination with Tarzan. For you it was more on the Tarzan-Jane relationship, I stayed with Tarzan as a result I had a lifelong interest in Africa where I spent a lot of time.
The second was that I can imagine that most professional mistresses were probably not accommodative to your preferred scenario which explains why most of your stories are about wrestlers and bodybuilders instead.
Part of what I liked is that I was always complaining that there are what I describe cult like elements in BDSM, almost like a religion. So many rules for so many situations. High protocol. Strict protocol. Somehow you always managed to remain you.
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#19619 - 01/28/24 08:28 AM
Re: Where have all the topics gone
[Re: Cheyenne]
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Sage
Registered: 11/02/15
Posts: 778
Loc: Philadelphia
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How, in the world, is musing about life experiences from the 70's endangering current day dommes? With all due respect, you are stifling conversation on this forum. Obviously, you are free to moderate as you see fit. Stifling? That's quite a jump there. It's either "I fucked a pro Domme" or nothing. It's not my fault that some lack depth in their conversation. It seems easier to just keep it simple and ask people to not discuss illegal activity instead of trying to agree upon at what point it is okay. It is discouraging to see positive conversations being censored and quality posters criticized, which has happened on other topics as well. I think you have me confused with someone else. I have taken issue with exactly 2 things out of however many hundred have been posted on this entire website. You've asked me to withdraw from discussions, which I obliged at the time. No, I did not, Cheyenne. I asked you to show some compassion. You removed yourself.But, it is getting to the point of having to walk on egg shells or simply be quiet. A ridiculous statement. I have only asked for a little discretion.
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#19621 - 01/28/24 10:39 AM
Re: Where have all the topics gone
[Re: Mistress Tissa]
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Pooh-Bah
Registered: 07/12/19
Posts: 2304
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This isn't a case of a poster asking for illegal activity or talking about anything, at all, that has occurred in the last two decades. An older man reminiscing about his life experiences from the 70's is not like a poster asking where he can find full body worship or talking about a dungeon on 4th street that gives handjobs. You and I obviously see JB's contributions on the forum very differently. Whatever the admin decides is acceptable or not, that is how it. What I take objection with is the manner in which you are treating JB, especially when he was responding by simply expressing his feelings. He's been an absolute positive poster who has been nice to everyone.
You most certainly asked to me to stop posting my point of view on a particular subject. I thought it was inappropriate of you but I did. It has since happened again and now a third time. Your opinions are valid and important. They should be shared here and respected. But, it doesn't mean that everyone has to agree with you or be shut down. It is difficult to watch posters be silenced or shamed on good topics. We have a good group of male posters here, all of whom are respectful and considerate. They should be treated the same in return, that includes expressing views that may not line up with the moderator's. People will not always agree. It would be really boring if everyone felt the exact same way on every topic.
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#19622 - 01/28/24 11:08 AM
Re: Where have all the topics gone
[Re: Cheyenne]
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Registered: 01/20/21
Posts: 416
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This isn't a case of a poster asking for illegal activity or talking about anything, at all, that has occurred in the last two decades. An older man reminiscing about his life experiences from the 70's is not like a poster asking where he can find full body worship or talking about a dungeon on 4th street that gives handjobs. You and I obviously see JB's contributions on the forum very differently. Whatever the admin decides is acceptable or not, that is how it. What I take objection with is the manner in which you are treating JB, especially when he was responding by simply expressing his feelings. He's been an absolute positive poster who has been nice to everyone.
You most certainly asked to me to stop posting my point of view on a particular subject. I thought it was inappropriate of you but I did. It has since happened again and now a third time. Your opinions are valid and important. They should be shared here and respected. But, it doesn't mean that everyone has to agree with you or be shut down. It is difficult to watch posters be silenced or shamed on good topics. We have a good group of male posters here, all of whom are respectful and considerate. They should be treated the same in return, that includes expressing views that may not line up with the moderator's. People will not always agree. It would be really boring if everyone felt the exact same way on every topic. Where's the "thumbs up" and "clapping hands" emoji when you need them? While I don't know what went on in DM's or the original post that got deleted this whole thing strikes me on the face of it as much ado about nothing. JB was recounting some adventures from 40-50 years ago not saying "I sessioned with Mistress so and so of such and such a city last week and she gave me a blow job/rode me cowgirl style/let me go down on her.... or whatever. I think there was some over reaction here from the moderator. Besides there are lots of what some people derogatorily call "Hookers with Whips" advertising BDSM sessions so that kind of thing is readily available if that's your jam. Is it illegal? Sure but so are tons of things people do every day. I think it's pretty clear that the Dommes that spend time here a of a very different ilk. Having said that as long as whoever owns/runs this website gives Mistress Tissa the position of a mod it's her call. I guess we either suck it up or leave. JB chose to leave....his prerogative. Besides, moderating a board can be a thankless job. Even if you disagree with the occasional decision we should be grateful for anyone who takes it on. I think there has been enough said on this topic. I plan to concentrate on more interesting/productive threads and will leave this one alone. Just my opinion and worth what you paid for it.....
Edited by furfan (01/28/24 12:01 PM)
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#19627 - 01/28/24 01:35 PM
Re: Where have all the topics gone
[Re: Cheyenne]
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Enthusiast
Registered: 06/21/19
Posts: 388
Loc: USA
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Yes exactly. Those Dommes are now retired and the statute of limitations has run out. And tbh I’d be shocked if the vice squads of LE were looking at these obscure boards at all when they’ve got escort sites like Eros and Tryst and others and especially The Erotic Review available not to mention what’s right in front of their face walking the streets or hanging out in truck stops.
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#19629 - 01/28/24 03:27 PM
Re: Where have all the topics gone
[Re: buffalo]
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Pooh-Bah
Registered: 07/12/19
Posts: 2304
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Exactly. It is also important to know that the post that was deleted was talking about the importance of expecting and respecting boundaries but also how his relationship with a domme once crossed those lines in a personal and meaningful way. He was obviously talking about a woman he cared about. It was a touching, funny and entertaining story that opened up good conversation. I met my late husband, who was the love of my life, because he was a video slave for ClubDom. I know several prodoms who ended up marrying men they met as clients. It is far from the norm. But, it does happen. It is understandable that Tissa misunderstood. JB's previous posts could have involved more casuals adventures. I didn't read all of them. But, again, we agree that they were harmless, fun stories from the NYC scene of many years gone by.
It would be nice if a pleasant resolution could be reached between Tissa and JB. I'm sure they both mean well and this can be resolved and put to rest. Meanwhile, I spoke with JB today. He wants to thank the posters who understand and have supported him. He's just here to make positive contributions and stay in touch with the prodom scene in his later years.
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#19630 - 01/28/24 04:18 PM
Re: Where have all the topics gone
[Re: Cheyenne]
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Enthusiast
Registered: 06/21/19
Posts: 388
Loc: USA
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Cheyenne you are the best. I’m sure I read his deleted post but don’t remember it. I was just about to PM him and I will but I do not know if he is still even looking here.
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