Originally Posted By furfan
Of course this presupposes a skilled amateur and an established relationship. Both of which I have been lucky enough to experience


And that's the key: finding a skilled partner and being granted access to them.

When you're lifestyle, you're more likely to treat play like dating and be selective.

So, you found someone who wanted to do sexy things with you for a long time. Congratulations. Unfortunately, many people will not have that opportunity. Enter professionals.