About 15 years ago when I started looking for a pro Domme, there was very little in the way of social media so it was necessary to resort to websites like Eros and others. I saw many ads that were interesting and had photos of beautiful women that promised a lot. I guess that being new in this lifestyle made me overly cautious so I spent a lot of time trying to decide who was a good fit for me. I visited with five or six Dommes over the next 2-3 years. Some I saw only once, others a couple of times. About 12 years ago I tired of "playing the field" and visited with a Mistress that I had only read about but was very much interested in. We each asked and answered questions truthfully and I decided to schedule a session with Her. The rest is history as they say. Was I just lucky that W/we hit it off so well right away. I don't think so. It was partly because W/we both knew what we wanted in a relationship such as this. How many men know what they want in this lifestyle? I suspect not a lot. Happily collared for several years and looking forward to many more serving MY Mistress. I call her MY Mistress because when W/we are in session all of my attention is focused on Her and Her alone.