At the risk of giving TMI (you did ask) - feces gets trapped between the first and second sphincter. It leaks out as the day goes on and creates that "ass smell" I referred to. A soapy finger in the shower until it comes back clean should be part of everyone's daily ablutions, in my opinion. Give it a try.

Trimmed is fine - the main thing I am concerned about is hair caught in cock & ball bondage and stuck in tens pad - that sort of thing. Plus a trimmed manscape is always more appealing.

I prefer no hair products. I am an up close and personal Domme. I may run my fingers through your hair or pull it on a whim. Having a hand full of hair product is not what I have in mind.

Breath is another important thing to take care of. When a Dommes comes in close, you don't want her pulling away and staying away because of halitosis. Bad breath can wreck my enthusiasm for a scene. I have put breath strips on subs tongues before. I'm just sayin.