Originally Posted By Spark
We did “normal” dating type stuff. Went out for sushi. Traveled some for vacation, went to the gym together, went to concerts etc. i was looking more for a relationship And companionship with some domination and this fit that need.


Oh, okay. I get confused when people use "vanilla" because it creates a dichotomy where one does not exist in my mind.

It sounds like you just wanted something more like a kinky companion. Glad it worked out for you!