Originally Posted By Spark
One told me she wanted to try SW and felt like being a dominatrix was a safer way for her to do it. She also expressed that she was very nervous about the whole thing.


This makes perfect sense. Except you don't start asking for money until you have some skills under your belt.

Before I went pro I did lifestyle play for about 7 years. Whether it was pick-up play at a party or inviting people over for fun, I didn't feel comfortable calling myself a pro until I felt like one. About 4 years into lifestyle play I was contemplating going pro and Coral Korrupt suggested I start and just charge less I decided that it just didn't feel right.

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none of the interactions were bad they just weren’t what i would describe as a true professional domme experience.


I respect that it worked for you, Spark. I just can't help but cringe at the idea of someone asking people for money and not really knowing something as basic as safewords. That's about as far away from a professional experience as I can imagine. It irritates me, to be honest, because this is sometimes people's introduction to kink and then they think this is how it works. It can make it harder for actual pros.


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In many ways i found what i was looking for, someone to date me and dominate with NSA. There was a good mix of vanilla and domination. I think we both benefited and enjoyed it. Personality wise it worked out really well but the domination went very slowly and was basic but i was ok with that.


What do you mean by "vanilla" in this context?


Edited by Mistress Tissa (12/08/22 07:45 PM)