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Hanging your customer is bad for business...
by international
03/31/25 09:17 PM
When should I start worrying that I've been ghosted by a domme?
by Chi61
03/31/25 08:37 PM
Advice on how to deal with anxiety-provoked IBS leading up to sessioning
by NaughtyNickB
03/31/25 02:25 PM
Pragmatic ask: Tell me your scam stories
by junglebeast
03/31/25 10:00 AM
Exhausted
by Domina M
03/31/25 07:08 AM
re *surprise* golden showers
by Poester
03/31/25 12:56 AM
Abduction Fantasy
by HOMlover
03/28/25 09:07 PM
fun vids on youtube
by ztrade
03/28/25 08:54 PM
Did anyone attend the House of Servitude Discipline & Reform Camp?
by gilcarnovsky
03/28/25 01:48 PM
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03/28/25 01:25 AM
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by ChicagoSlicker
03/25/25 04:35 PM
All weekend servitude session with introduction to ball busting with the one true Goddess, Goddess Lilith
by DreamTimeCollector
03/18/25 01:03 PM
Session with Mistress Zaida
by Mistress UV
03/18/25 11:50 AM
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#18372 - 01/17/23 06:02 PM Re: Catfishing-- Have you ever booked a session through social media? [Re: bdsmlover]
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Sage

Registered: 11/02/15
Posts: 838
Loc: Philadelphia
Originally Posted By bdsmlover
Doms/subs, do you think this is a real profile? - Amistress138Mis

Photos look real but there is no name or website.


Fake. The silly user name aside, look at how many people they're following. This is a big sign of a fake. They follow lots and lots of people to try to increase the chances they can get someone to send them some cash.

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#18373 - 01/17/23 06:07 PM Re: Catfishing-- Have you ever booked a session through social media? [Re: Spark]
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Registered: 11/02/15
Posts: 838
Loc: Philadelphia
Originally Posted By Spark
here’s no website alternate social media, only fans etc , no verification. The entire TL is almost all pictures no words which seems strange. The “likes” section of her time includes a fair amount of hardcore vanilla porn i dont see that from Dommes or just SW who cater to kink for that matter.


These are the kinds of things you guys need to think of every time you're trying to determine if someone is legit.

The number one thing: does she have a website? Scammers very rarely do.

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There are so many well reviewed real mistresses. It wouldnt be worth the risk to me.


Some guys seem to have a fetish for this risk because it doesn't make sense otherwise!

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#18410 - 02/01/23 12:43 PM Re: Catfishing-- Have you ever booked a session through social media? [Re: Mistress UV]
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Registered: 07/08/19
Posts: 58
I only reach out to folks I find on Fetlife who insist contact be made via KIK, surely they’re not scammers. ????
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#18416 - 02/06/23 09:46 PM Re: Catfishing-- Have you ever booked a session through social media? [Re: Awillingstudent]
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Registered: 10/18/15
Posts: 293
Loc: Atlanta
Yeah that seems like scammers... I hope you're kidding. Do they ask you to send money through bitcoin and paypal too?
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#18417 - 02/07/23 08:41 AM Re: Catfishing-- Have you ever booked a session through social media? [Re: Mistress UV]
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Registered: 07/08/19
Posts: 58
Definitely kidding. It seems like there are more and more scammers these days.
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#18418 - 02/08/23 04:28 AM Re: Catfishing-- Have you ever booked a session through social media? [Re: Mistress UV]
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Regular

Registered: 06/12/19
Posts: 105
Loc: Pensacola, FL
Originally Posted By Mistress UV
I recently messaged one of the fake profiles on instagram that was using My photos to catfish people. I was just curious to see if they would try to book a session with Me. And the answer was -- kind of? I acted like the typical newbie sub who asks too many questions and hasn't yet understood protocol, and they acted like a bossy Domme who didn't know what they were doing. They insisted I give Myself over to them and follow their every instruction. I keep pushing for an email address and they gave Me one, and then continued to ask I follow rules they wouldn't yet give. Pretty annoying interaction overall.

The game is to get these subs to send a "deposit" or money to show dedication.

This happens constantly in the ProDomme and SW world, and because we are using stage names its pretty difficult to prove that we are actually that person to someone moderating some of these social media sites.

This has always fascinated Me, they're putting in the work to make a full profile and use every photo I update from Twitter to make it believable, so they must be making a profit.

Are guys just really so inexperienced they don't know any better or are there actually people who have gotten a session this way?

Dommes, do you use social media to book sessions? If so, which ones?

subs, have you actually booked and sessioned with a ProDomme through social media only? Did you google the person? Find a website? What was the process?

I only book through Email & Phone. I've been doing that way for 25 years, and don't plan on changing. The only way I enjoy Catfish is Southern fried with lemon & Tatar Sause grin
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