Originally Posted By TedBCruisin
"It is withholding information that your spouse wouldn't like. However, it is definitely better than burdening your wife with needs she wouldn't understand."


This is a very egocentric view.

Some guys haven't even given their partner a chance to understand, but they are certain she would not. What I think is often the case is that the guy lacks the courage to discuss it with her.

Gentlemen, you owe it not only to your partner but yourself to be honest about your needs. You will both be much happier.

Originally Posted By TedBCruisin
"To do it again, I wouldn't marry a woman I couldn't be completely open with."


This is great, but you can be open with her now.