Originally Posted By ztrade
In about what % of the time does the guy safeword out?


Zero percent.

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Of you who are dommes, do you always insist on safewords being available or do you do nonconsent, either generally or because the guy has asked for a no safewords session?


Some people misunderstand the purpose of a safeword. It's not something that I could ever ethically decide someone does not get to use, nor do I understand when someone requests a "no safewords" session. It's an indication there's an emergency, not a Domme-control switch.

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the common safeword used for stop is red. If and when a guy says red, does that mean for you stop what you are doing and talk, stop what you are doing and move to a different activity or stop what you are doing and send the guy home, no matter much time he has paid for?


I use red differently. I use it to mean that my sub or bottom can't take anymore of something but does not want me to stop the scene. I have never had anyone use red. And except for some very unusual cases, a good Dominant or top should be able to read someone before they call red.


Edited by Mistress Tissa (09/21/22 03:29 PM)