I completely agree. Especially an independent domina who works out of her own play space or hotel. (I’ve done my share of sessions with dominant female bodybuilders at their hotel rooms.) As I became a more experienced sub, and less self-absorbed, I looked at it from their point of view. In fact I put myself in the mindset that they were hiring me to be their sub and I had to make sure I played my role correctly. All of that put me into the proper subspace for Dominas I never met.