AspX, broom, Soapy, Mistress Ayn and Cheyenne, my thanks for your thoughtful approach that officially brought me to my senses. My experience at the cemetery was brief. I was uncomfortable, yet aroused. I drove there by myself yesterday thinking about some of the issues you mention. Of course you are all correct.

My apologies to all who posted about this and anyone who read it. I guess it was therapy for me to write about it and, you made me recognize my selfishness... there is no other word. I thank you all. And respectfully add that this thread should be closed or shut down. Again, my apologies.