Is it common or uncommon, expected or unexpected for a guy to masturbate while doing ass worship? for some perhaps encouraged; for others, they get whipped?

Interesting question. I guess whether it is expected would depend on the scene. If it was toward the end of the session and this was the finale, it may be expected that the dom would instruct her slave to masturbate. I've made videos in which a slave is whipped by one mistress as he worships another one. Whipping and body worship required two doms. I can see how it cbt could could be simultaneous but...whipping on the back or the ass...how do you picture it working with one dom?

I meant . . . re the guy getting whipped . . . if the mistress is upset and decides to punish the guy! So, in that case, she rebukes him or says something and changes position so as to whip or cane him!

Some mistresses will whip or cane the guy for any of a dozen reasons or their whim!

Not as many as you like to think.

Yes, they do. :-)

I need more information.

If the Domme and sub have some kind of agreement that "transgressions" (i.e. expected bad behavior) are to be met with "punishment" (aka "funishment") then sure. This is bratty play. Some enjoy this.

But, if what you're asking is what I think you're asking, as it's a fairly common question from men, is more about "what if I do something I know she actually doesn't like and will make her mad, will she get mad and hurt me more? Because that would be hot and make me hard"

...to which my answer is: no.

If I, using your example, offered ass worship, and a guy started masturbating, how I would handle it would depend on the boundaries established in the scene. If I explicitly told him that he was not allowed to masturbate unless I gave him permission, likewise with any other activity, such as licking my ass or touching any other part of my body during worship, and he did it anyway, I would not think it "cute" and then just hit him as a method of correction. I would kick him out of my dungeon.

Actual boundary violations are not a game and treating them as such teaches your subs exactly how they can manipulate you to get what they want.



If that's what has been negotiated in the scene, sure. But if it has not, no.

I’ve sessioned a lot over the years and I can’t imagine just randomly starting to jerk off in a session. I’ve never really discussed that up front, just always seemed understood that you shouldn’t jerk off without permission. Tbh, this seems like a good rule in general, not just with bdsm. If there’s someone else in the room, you probably shouldn’t jerk off without checking in first. Lol

+1

I would never break a real rule with my domme. You to keep professional on both ends. In that case unless agreed upon before hand I wouldn’t expect punishment I would expect to be released and told to go.