Over the years, I've had friends and clients that go from one extreme to another with the activities they want to experience and the type of play partner they want to interact with. Other folks tend to stick with their main interest and get deeper into it. Do you find yourself trending one way or another?

I wouldn’t say I stray from my core interests, but I have definitely expanded my interests from, say, 20 years ago. ????. Even a hard limit in the past has turned into a soft limit, although most of my hard limits are still just that.

My BDSM interest have evolved over time due to my desire to have new experiences and push my own boundaries. I have a favorite style of play and some favorite activities, but I have always looked to have them expanded in duration and intensity. I have been blessed to have played with some amazing Dommes who encouraged and enjoyed that desire to try new things. The amazing Troy Orleans taught me to play with an attitude of "YES!" when given the chance to expand my BDSM horizons.

I go through phases. While I am a switch there are periods where my topside is stronger and others such as the last decade where my masochistic/submissive side is stronger.

I spelled out my phases in some detail in this very old thread

http://domina.ms/~domroot/thebuzz/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1957#Post1957

Interesting question. Mine were very consistent for 20+ years but lately I’ve found them changing. It’s been interesting to explore new directions. I’m also finding my preferences in play parters to be expanding lately. Not sure where it will lead, but interested in seeing.

Spanking, on either side of the paddle, remains my foremost interest. But, I've expanded into other areas. I will try almost anything once with the right people.

I'm open to dabbling in interests that exceed foot and leg worship. But that has consistently been my staple.