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#17249 - 05/29/22 05:02 PM Chastity device question
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So I previously asked about chastity devices, specifically metal cages in sessions. I had an opportunity to try this the other day. It was more of a tease session with light ballbusting and it was with an escort who had some prior Domme experience, but was not a pro Domme. So it was amazing, super intense,fun. Only one issue, there was blood, a lot of blood. Like the most I’ve ever bled in a session.

My theory is that the cage was too small and with a larger cage this wouldn’t happen? But curious if anyone else has run into this? The cage seemed fine when I tried it on alone, but thinking that’s not a good indicator of what it’s like during an extended, intense tease session. There was no pain, I didn’t even realize I was bleeding until I looked down and saw blood all over.

I’m eager to try it again, but was not intending the bleeding and was a bit of a buzz kill during a teasing session. She was horrified and kept apologizing and I’m like it’s fine, don’t worry. Meanwhile blood everywhere. Lol. Appreciate any insight.

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#17250 - 05/29/22 09:10 PM Re: Chastity device question [Re: Chi61]
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I can’t answer your question but I’ve had bleeding like that happen with other activities and yes total buzz kill and freaked me out. Also very cool you found an escort willing to play that way.
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#17265 - 05/31/22 12:42 PM Re: Chastity device question [Re: Chi61]
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Hello Chi61. I've been playing with chastity for many many years, both long term and short term. I have never had anyone bleed simply from having a device on. The kind of blood you are talking about can sometimes result from the busting up of scar tissue in the ureteral while sounding. I am not sure how a normal chastity device could cause this. Was the blood coming from inside? Or from a scratch/pinch on the outside?
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#17266 - 05/31/22 05:34 PM Re: Chastity device question [Re: Mistress Ayn]
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Mistress Ayn

Thanks for your response. I was worried at first that it was internal. But now that I’ve had a few days after I’m pretty confident it was all external. There’s a lot of bruising and multiple cuts. I’m a bit perplexed by it as well. I think the ballbusting activity may have contributed. Also thinking the device was a bit small so everything was pretty confined and that there was a lot of blood flowing to the area (lol). But I don’t know. Probably won’t try this again for a bit and if I do, probably will be with someone more experienced. Though outside the literal bloodbath, it was a ton of fun.

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#17268 - 05/31/22 06:08 PM Re: Chastity device question [Re: Chi61]
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Knowing that it was external makes more sense. I don't know the quality of your device, but some of the China made ones can have problems with fit and finish that can cause rubbing or cutting and you don't realize it until it's been on for a while. Give it another try once you healed - but try a different device. Unless it cut off circulation to your junk, there is no such thing as too small ;-)
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#17269 - 05/31/22 06:22 PM Re: Chastity device question [Re: Mistress Ayn]
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That’s super helpful. I bought a couple online from Lockthecock.com and really liked the quality and the locking mechanism, ease to put on. But I felt they were all too large, bulky, and heavy. So I went on Amazon and found a much smaller one I think it was Ternence. I liked the size of it, but hate the lock and difficulty putting on and it’s the one that did the damage. Maybe I’ll look for another that size, but a different brand. I’m going to have quite the collection soon.

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