I love the look of 5 inch and over stilettos. But, walking in them for any length of time is not only uncomfortable but awkward. I admire the women who have been able to master that. I kept my stilettos to 3". Although chunky heeled boots were not a favorite of all men, I opted for them. It was the only way I could stay in boots for more than an hour at a time. I didn't like to be barefoot in session unless it was a foot fetish session. But, I've done that toward the end of a few parties over the years.