You have the right idea about bringing good energy into your sessions. I'm finally dabbling in Professional Domination. So far, it has been play for pay and foot parties. It is a nice touch when a submissive brings a gift he wants me to wear. It sets the playtime off on a personal level. If he frequents the parties, I start adding to my own wardrobe and surprise him with items I've purchased and know he will like. The more fun in play time, the more fun the play time.