The problem with MF - and it's been said a million times so I don't know why you all don't get it - is what little moderation there is there is biased. It's been heavily debated who controls the site, but if you say something negative against a certain few, the post gets taken down almost immediately. The rest of us just have to deal with it.

And for you guys that no one knows who you are, you can just change your user name (during the windows when they accept new registrants) and come back as someone else. We professionals can't do that and whatever is out there, true or not, stays there. Yes, what doesn't kill you may make you stronger, but I don't intend to jump in a pit of vipers to test the theory when I can simply walk away from it.

Komodo, no, you did not share Mistress Kiva's experience. You may have sparred on there but all that got hurt was your ego. It didn't effect your bottom line. And, yes, we all realize that there are a ton of lurkers that never participate. Those are some of the same people that use the search box and research your name before booking a session. All the more reason not to put yourself out there for a defamatory attack.