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#16933 - 04/12/22 10:28 AM Asking for Additional Photos
TedBCruisin Offline
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Every once in a while I see a Mistress that piques my interest but there are no photos of her bare feet or legs. Is there a protocol to follow when someone is serious about booking a session but wants a little more to make the commitment? Should I assume the Mistress is not interested in foot and leg worship sessions?

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#16934 - 04/12/22 11:47 AM Re: Asking for Additional Photos [Re: TedBCruisin]
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Hello ted. I think it's acceptable to ask to see additional photos but in the age of paid social media, it's probably the best etiquette to ask WHERE you can see additional photos. If she can't direct to to a source (clips, OF, LF, etc), if she is interested in such a session maybe she will take the initiative to send you some.

My best guess if a Dommes isn't showing her feet, she either isn't aware of the value of her feet or she thinks they are not marketable. Of course, it's possible she doesn't like having her feet worshipped but that's rare.
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#16938 - 04/12/22 05:22 PM Re: Asking for Additional Photos [Re: TedBCruisin]
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Mistress Ayn is spot on. Are you back to doing sessions again? I hope so. It seemed an important part of your life.

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#16941 - 04/13/22 05:08 AM Re: Asking for Additional Photos [Re: Mistress Ayn]
TedBCruisin Offline
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Thank you, Mistress. I have followed your advise.

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#16942 - 04/13/22 05:15 AM Re: Asking for Additional Photos [Re: Cheyenne]
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Yes, I'm venturing back into sessions. I ended up coming clean with my girlfriend. (Now my fiance) We had a couple of rough days but ended up working it out in a way we can both live with. Thanks for asking, Mistress.

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#16945 - 04/13/22 10:41 AM Re: Asking for Additional Photos [Re: TedBCruisin]
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Kudos to you for having the talk. In my experience the desire to session and have kink a part of your life doesn't go away just because you have a serious partner. Being up front with them gives them the choice and fair warning. I am glad you are working it out.
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#16952 - 04/14/22 05:33 PM Re: Asking for Additional Photos [Re: TedBCruisin]
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I would assume that a Mistress who does not have foot or leg photos is relatively new to the scene. If she's definitely very experienced and has no such photos up then it might be appropriate to assume she does not enjoy those activities -- but that would be quite rare.

I second the advice to ask where you can see those photos. I'll also add that there's a good chance they're posted on social media even if they are not prominently displayed on her website/ads and it might be worth checking that out before making contact.

You may have to pay to view them. I know of at least one Mistress who intentionally paywalls her feet. Chances are a few foot and leg photos won't cost you much.

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#16979 - 04/22/22 06:19 AM Re: Asking for Additional Photos [Re: MayaMidnight]
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Thank you, Mistress.

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