Aww, thank you nysubjack that's very sweet.

One of my very first pro sessions I was pressured by the dungeon I worked at to give a GS. Showers were never really in my interests, and I had no experience giving one but I was willing to give it a shot to see if doing it would open my mind. Unfortunately I was assaulted during that session, which absolutely ruined that activity for me. It is a hard, hard limit now. I'm glad I never really had that much interest in it anyways, so it probably would've wound up on my limit list at some point anyhow.

My hard limit list is, in my opinion, pretty long compared to the average Domme. I find putting activities I don't like off the table and settings other strict boundaries has kept my love of kink happy and healthy. It's hjard to not feel like a fetish dispenser otherwise. Although this limits the clients I'll attract and lowers my possible income, it's 100% worth it because I won't be burned out with the clients I do have chemistry with, leading to mutually satisfying and fulfilling scenes. I'm sure if I did more activities I didn't enjoy my overall session quality (and mental health) would suffer.