over at MF, in the last few weeks, there are two or three posters who said directly or implied that their involvement in bdsm or getting caned was a curse to them in various ways. One of them called it a disease and said he wished he could be rid of it . . .

Do you who are subs and who post here regard your practice as a blessing a curse a mixed blessing or neither or ?

If you are a domme, do you feel or believe that you have been helping some people or that you do what you do mercenary, whether people are helped or afflicted or both or neither?