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#16672 - 03/05/22 01:23 AM Pain spreading through your body
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One of the things i love about ball busting is that when you get squared up the pain of the impact to your balls spreads throughout your body. If placed perfectly my vision blurs, and i feel the pain quickly move to my gut, neck, and face.

I dont really know anatomy but that must be telling me all the nerves are interconnected.

Does anyone know another body part that causes that same sensation of pain throughout the body. I havent been able to find it but im wondering if i am missing something

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#16674 - 03/05/22 08:51 AM Re: Pain spreading through your body [Re: Spark]
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I don't know how everything is connected. Getting kicked in the balls is not something I would ever seek out. But, I've taken an accidental hit on them a few times. My gut is the first place I feel it. Then the pain works it's way up right to my throat. I'm a kinky man but, that is a hard limit for me in session.

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#16675 - 03/05/22 09:28 AM Re: Pain spreading through your body [Re: Spark]
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Fun fact: Your balls share nerves with your abdomen smile
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#16676 - 03/05/22 03:10 PM Re: Pain spreading through your body [Re: TedBCruisin]
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I get a nauseated, going to be sick feeling hard on the heels of the pain. Hardly sexy or fun….definitely NOT the “good” kind of pain. Hard limit for me too.

Although electro play or things like Kali’s teeth/ spiked cock sheaths are fine. It’s just the ball busting/hard impact play side of CBT that’s a hard no for me.

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#16690 - 03/06/22 07:23 AM Re: Pain spreading through your body [Re: Spark]
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I’m a little surprised more guys on here aren’t into this. For me it’s not about enjoying the physical experience of it. It’s much more psychological. It’s this incredible feeling to be dropped to my knees from a single kick or feeling that overwhelming pain throughout my body as a beautiful Domme casually squeezes.

I think for me it became ingrained in my brain during my teen years as girls were always talking about “going for the balls”. The fact that it’s a unique male pain that the Domme can administer but not receive. I also find it seems to be an activity many Dommes really enjoy but don’t seem to get to do as much as they would like. I find when I send an email inquiring about doing a ball busting session I often receive very enthusiastic responses, lol

To each their own of course and I am somewhat glad it’s a niche. Just suprising to me that it’s such a hard no for many.

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#16691 - 03/06/22 08:07 AM Re: Pain spreading through your body [Re: Chi61]
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It’s this incredible feeling to be dropped to my knees from a single kick or feeling that overwhelming pain


I love this feeling. The pain is often debilitating and unbearable. Ive lost the ability to breathe and see with kicks to the balls.

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I also find it seems to be an activity many Dommes really enjoy


I have seen this reaction as well. I date many “vanilla” women and ive been doing sessions with kinky escorts and women on seeking. Many of my partners i im introducing to bdsm for the first time. When i tell them about ball busting their eyes light up. I love that reaction.

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#16694 - 03/07/22 07:51 AM Re: Pain spreading through your body [Re: DommeLynx]
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Originally Posted By DommeLynx
Fun fact: Your balls share nerves with your abdomen smile


That's what makes ballbusting so much fun!
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#16704 - 03/11/22 05:59 AM Re: Pain spreading through your body [Re: DommeLynx]
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Absolutely true! After a session of hard BB I feel like throwing up for an hour.

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#16705 - 03/11/22 11:06 PM Re: Pain spreading through your body [Re: Spark]
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Ive only got into ball busting late in life. I was always scared of sustaining an injury that would cause me to go to the emergency room so never asked for it. The Dommes I have done this with were experienced and truly legends and once I decided to go for it I was shocked at how much I could take.

I agree with you that the pain spreads upward into the stomach. It’s not a good feeling but I love the experience of this powerful beautiful sadistic woman attacking the symbol of my male hood and enjoying it. I can’t think of another body part that can cause similar spreading pain throughout the body but perhaps some types of electrical play skilfully applied could do so. But it’s a different type of torture.
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#16706 - 03/12/22 10:38 AM Re: Pain spreading through your body [Re: ]
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Originally Posted By Nomasks
Same here. I had Gia at the Gates do it. I didn't ask, but she ended up doing it. Even as hot as she is, I didn't like it. I just don't like feeling like I'm gonna puke as the pain travels up through my stomach. Never got into kicks or punches to the nuts... it's one of those things men with brothers try to avoid.


How about asking the domme to use only her feet and knees for BB? And if the pain becomes too much follow up with aftercare and foot/leg worship? Will that make it better?


Edited by Ritesh Kumar (03/12/22 10:40 AM)

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