Hi Mistrix Violeta:

Thanks so much for replying to my humble post. I've been a fan of strap-on play for most of my life and have always wondered if there was a way to stimulate the wearer as well as the fortunate sub on the receiving end. Wonderful to get advice on this subject from a Domme who was also involved with the sex toy industry. Apparently, strapless strapons have been very much over-hyped! It sounds from your description like a feeldoe might be okay for two female partners, but wouldn't work for a femdom pegging type situation, which is what I'm interested in. Though I do have extensive experience with this activity, I've never been on the receiving end with a partner who could also experience pleasure as a result of the pegging and wondered if such a thing was possible. In the interest of full disclosure, I must confess that I'm writing a piece of femdom erotica in which a married couple experiments with femdom and the wife pegs her husband for the first time. I wanted her to orgasm from the experience and had heard there might be ways to make that happen, but I wanted to be sure the scene was authentic and I had my facts straight. I'm very glad I came here to ask the question first because it sounds like these toys are something of a disaster. In the story, I ended up using a leather harness with a pocket on the inside to hold a small (silver bullet) vibrator. Thanks so much again for responding and sharing your expertise with me.