I kind of (really really alot) like the strap on. Sometimes the strapon session is great and I totally feel that first deep penetration, other times it is a less distinct feeling. I think the difference is in the lube that the mistress uses. if mistress uses a lube that numbs the sissy's entrance, the sissy doesnt get the full feeling of the cock and gets less enjoyment from being fucked. i understand that sometimes sissies are not fucked for their pleasure but I am wondering about the thoughts of mistresses and other subs on the use of lube as relates to the session. any thoughts?

The last few years I have told dommes that I am OK with them not using lube during strap on if they want. There was one domme who was shocked and gave me a lecture about how unsafe it was without lube. But there was another who was definitely turned on by my offer. Yes it hurt a lot. It's supposed to. I'm a masochist.

I recently tweeted that happiness was being able to fuck an attorney in the ass without any lube. you aren't an attorney are you?

That post got lots of love, but I was actually kidding. Anal fissures can be hard to heal, so be careful with that thomas.

Over the years I have been taken by plug and finger(s) by a Mistress or two, always protected and lubed. In the past year I wanted to be taken by strap but finally admitted to my Mistress (someone I have known for yes, off and on) that due to my age and lack of "flexibility" down there it will remain a fantasy. Listen to Mistress Ayn and the head on your shoulders and not between your legs. Use lube. Be safe.

Agreed, lubeis good, anaesthetic lube, i think takes away a greqt sensation. And hahahah... i am not an attorney!

Agreed, lubeis good, anaesthetic lube, i think takes away a greqt sensation. And hahahah... i am not an attorney!