I remember years ago I was in session with a Domme I’d seen a bunch of times. Things were going great. I don’t remember the exact sequence but she had put a metal clamp on the head of my penis and the pain was excruciating and I just started screaming like never before. She immediately sensed something was wrong and asked what it was. I told her , she took the clamp off and we just continued. No safeword needed.

I’m not sure but I think when I started sessioning I used to be very unresponsive. At some point that changed and it’s been common for Dommes to tell me I’m fun to play with. I’m not sure if that’s because I am responsive or can take a lot or am open to whatever.