Originally Posted By buffalo
Maybe I misunderstand you but being pushed until I safeword is not a good answer when asked how much you can take. Everyone is different and some people will safeword after one hard cane stroke while others will take 50 abd still not safeword.


I agree, buffalo. Approaching a scene where the goal is to get to safeword sounds like someone who isn't experienced.

If someone wants to be pushed to see how much they can take, that is different.