There is a saying what you don't know cannot hurt you. This is a situation where what you don't know can not only hurt you, but also many people around you. Your point of view is your own, but it is minoritary, and if you will cite specialists of the same opinion they are in minority too. If you are right you have to put up with an inconvenience. If you are wrong you seriously endanger people.

So while you deserve credit for being sincere you are alienating people.

These convictions of yours is why I could never recommend a mistress to you when you were searching.