i usually plan 3-4 weeks ahead. By experience, i'm used to have my first message ignored… My usual follow ups 2-3 days later eventally get recognized and i get a vague positve replay (or i have to find another date). Then i do my further planning, travel preparations etc. and give some status updates. As long as my inbox stays empty, i stay optimistic. i have the impression this got worse over the years…

i am a regular since maybe five years - but She doesn't bother replaying timely or at all. But i do adore her - a lot! And maybe this is a kind of humilation or way to torture me, showing me my place. But i HATE this! Deeply!
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