Originally Posted By Chi61
So, apologies if this is too political or controversial.


It is neither, the pandemic is a fact.

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I was super excited for the session but the day before I got an email from her with the day of protocol - where to go, etc but it also stated when I arrived we would both take COVID tests and not session if either of us tested negative twice (in case of false positive on the first test)


I would honestly appreciate that.

It would protect my safety, the safety of my friends and family, as well as her own safety.

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But for some reason, perhaps the intrusive nature of the test, this just felt like too much for me.


I don't know what your kinks are, but you are visiting a sex worker to have intense things done to you, maybe even put in you or on you. That doesn't mesh with feeling that a safety test is intrusive. No disrespect and no insult is meant.

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In fairness to this Domme, she did acknowledge that communication could have been better and I should have known the requirement earlier.


Exactly!

You should have known about this upfront.

To her credit she admitted her mistake.


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She also offered some solutions including refunding my deposit which I thought was very kind of her.


It wasn't just kind, it was the right thing to do given her mistake by not communicating her requirements sooner. It is also good business on her part to refund a deposit for a session canceled for a fair reason.

She deserves credit for that as well.

Sorry about the large amount of disappointment.


Edited by Soapy (01/27/22 08:10 AM)