I have been mainly on IG and Twitter. Twitter has made me sour on the scene but a painslut needs to suffer. The rates are killing me. I need to take second mortgage out to play.

But I have found a way. I do partake in seeking out the massage parlors and it takes time and effort but I have met a few ladies that will indulge in my type of play. I think the chase is exciting and what really makes me feel good is they are so grateful and appreciative.

I can play more often because it is usually 1/3 or 1/2 of todays rates. Of course you don't get what you may get from seeing professional dominatrix but being experienced and good communicator helps.

Massage parlor sessions can be lovely. It is far from a dungeon session, which I prefer. But, what a perfect afternoon whim for a foot and leg fetishist. The ladies are usually petite and attractive. It is a lot less expensive. It is a nice hold over until the real deal for me.

If quantity over quality is what you're into. Why don't you start attending munches and lifestyle events? You can always find a three hundred pound mama, clad in a herd of leather. Ready to punish you for free.

The truth is there are several top quality professional Dommes who have kept the same rate for years. I for one, have only raised my rates by $50 dollars in twenty years. I hardly think that's enough to drive my clients to massage parlors.

I'll give you some "Free" advice stay off IG and Twitter. Try...

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I went that route a few times a decade ago, initially just needing a back massage - stress from work - really. One lady began to explore one day and I began to investigate. Haven't done that for a long time though.

Mistress, I'm back home and picked up were I left off with my longtime Mistress after a couple of years away. Sessioned inside and a couple of early morning illicit outdoor sessions in NYC in the past couple of months. She texted the yesterday about a session before Xmas. We are booth vaccinated and boosted, but with the new variant... we may wait a week or two.

The cure for high prices is high prices. Now that everybody and her sister found out they can charge $400 the number of providers will be increased by new players hoping they could charge the same. At the same time very few new subs will join the scene because at this price they will have doubts whether it is worth it. Overtime you will have more mistresses chasing fewer subs.

In the mean time probably seeing a new mistress is not a good idea.

350 hr seems to be about the going rate where i live and im in a pretty high priced city (not NYC or LA).

Like you the i enjoy the chase as well. And i love finding someone who doesn't know they are into kink and introducing them into it. For the ultimate chase and cost savings, ive had good success in the last couple of years just introducing femdom and kink into my dating relationships. When i was younger i wouldnt have dared to bring it up. But ive found it to be an incredible conversation starter and almost everyone i have shared with has been willing to explore femdom with me. I wish i would have known sooner how many people were interested and open to it.

This raises an interesting question. Were women more willing than one would think to explore kink or did society become more excepting of it? I think it has come less taboo and almost trendy. But, I travel in some pretty depraved circles. My view could be slanted.

Its an interesting question here is my shot at it. I think its a little of a both. But i do think its more the former than the later. I think that bdsm has become a little less taboo in the last 20 years or so but not to the extent i would hope. And i believe that is mainly due to the amount of men who are into but aren’t comfortable sharing.

I just got to the point a few years back where i said life is short im going to share what i am interested in. I think it makes me interesting on dates and gets us away from the normal get to know you conversations that seem mundane. Im normally met with a response of ive never done that but id be open to trying. And it goes from there. One difference i think is worth pointing out that a pro session is all focused on me and my kinks. There is a balance here where i tend to blend vanilla with kink and match her interests with mine. I often get to be the guide for someone experiencing something new. But that works well for me.

This is my thoughts on it too. It has not only become more accepted but even a little trendy.