I wasted A LOT of time once due to an online post of domina/fitness expert who posted on the WB270.com female bodybuilder site whose only pic was of her from the neck down in a sports bra & yoga pants. Her body looked great, her description seemed to be dominant and creative, but the outfit was a bland turn-off for me. I resisted the impulse to call when I was in her city, but she finally came to NYC, and had a session. I was her sub a couple of times a year for six years and she took me to just about the deepest subspace I have ever known. (And no, she never wore her sports bra and yoga pants with me.)