If you don't trust a Domme enough to not go through your stuff while you shower then you shouldn't be seeing them! LMAO

Same goes with showing an ID or real name, honestly. I know subs have privacy concerns... but if you do your research and read reviews you should be able to find real professionals that you won't have to concern yourself with whatever you think the consequences of sharing that info might be.

I don't care too much about having someones real name as long as they use the same name, email, and phone number consistently. I've only asked for ID before a session started in the rare occasion that the sub looked pretty young and I wanted to verify they weren't lying about being over 18.

Best advice when finding a Domme you can trust as a newbie is to make sure they have a website, lots of reviews, social media, and some sort of proof they've been around a while!