Some of these replies are wild. What kind of shady people do you all see?

Are you seeing an established Domme with a large social media presence that is verified on websites and screams legitimacy? Then what are you worried about? If you trust her with your body, you can trust her with your name.

Most Dommes (in New York at least) will ask for ID or two references. Nothing red flag about it. We get hundreds of IDs/phone numbers/etc, you're not special. You're seeing a Dominatrix-- not trying to steal the declaration of independence.

Clients don't realize but screening protects BOTH parties. How can you go to the location of a Domme who doesn't screen well and trust that it wont be dangerous / stalked by crazies, LE, etc? Screening helps prevent that. It also allows the Domme to feel safer which will likely result in a better time for both parties.