Spark... In reading posts here and MF over the years I used to wonder if I really was submissive, or just acting the part. To your point I didn't know, "What's my role?"

I've sessioned with strict dominas, many well-known, escorts who are dominant, masseuses into kink, female bodybuilders (with my Amazon role play, love them), etc. Most of my sessions have been sensual - really no real pain or marks for me. I have always respected the women and their boundaries (no matter their label) and all of them have respected my limits. More than a few have given me privileges in one way or another I never expected.

My kink, if you can call it that, is to be with a beautiful woman I never would have met otherwise and, being as polite (dare I say a "gentleman" as possible) enjoying being the center of their attentions in a very theatrical setting - costumes, roleplay, acting, etc. I describe my sessions as an adult Disney World.

Been doing this since the '70s, off and on. I don't care what my "role" is but I've had a hell of a lot of fun the past few decades. I hope to continue to for a little while more.