My fetishes have definitely changed over the years. Ive moved much more into pain than anything else and id describe myself more as a bottom than a submissive or a slave.

The one fetish i have picked up recently that i an really surprised about is ballbusting. But i think i do it a little different. I dont like being ball busted in session. I like it out of session when I'm not expecting it. For example, this past weekend i was in Chicago on vacation with my Domme we woke up she rolled over and punched me right in the balls. The pain was intense. But for whatever reason we both crack up in laughter at the shock and surprise of those completely random unexpected moments. It keeps me on my toes and has definitely become my new kink. Im not sure how i can laugh at such intense pain but we are having a lot of fun with it.