Very cool. Thank you for posting. I don't have as much experience in this as you but i have been in a 2.5 year Sugar/femdom relationship. I lucked out when i found out She did both. Our BDSM interest and personalities align so it has led to some life changing experiences for both of us.

The key for me has been to treat it like a real relationship and it makes the domination all the more special. Its 90% vanilla 10% femdom but it works