I truly like being dominated by dommes 40+. They tend to go easier on me because I'm significantly younger.. But eventually I find a ruthless cold-hearted, ball-busting, cock-hater. Easier to find a manhater on fetlife than professional setting.

It's my fault for being attracted to them, but I can't help it. TPE, hard repeated kicking, slapping, squeezing, genuinely forced to cum and saw hint of blood on her hand and floor, continued ballbusting AFTER cumming - I felt like I was going to die. Penis-fracture and almost castrated on a "trampling board" sending me to ER, all made me stepped back from the scene years ago.

I trust pro-dommes on domina.ms for my safety, more than fetlife. But my circle had "sadists", female-separatists and female-supremacists and dominants with personal issues of males.

All depends on your circle. You can find gentle dommes or sadistic dommes.

When in doubt, look at her close friends. It reflects her personality.